about salt & arrows
Hi, Iβm Sharon β Christian counselor, coach, and the heart behind Salt & Arrows.
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WHY I DO THIS WORK
Iβve always believed that women and girls carry a quiet strength the world often overlooks. Not loud, not forceful β but steady, Spiritβled, and resilient.
My work began with a simple conviction: when a woman knows who she is in Christ, she becomes unshakeable.
Over the years, Iβve walked with girls and women through conflict, heartbreak, identity questions, friendship wounds, dating confusion, and the pressure to be βfine.β
And Iβve watched them rise β not because life got easier, but because they learned how to see themselves through truth, not fear.
My Counseling Approach
Hey, Iβm Sharon!
CBT + ACT Foundationsβ β
I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help you notice the patterns between your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors β and learn how to shift them with clarity and confidence.
I use Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help you build emotional flexibility, align with your values, and take steady, meaningful steps forward even when life feels heavy or uncertain. My favorite way to explain ACT is:
βItβs helping people to live a richer, more meaningful life based on what they value while also navigating and acknowledging all the difficult situations that we inevitably go through as human beings.β
Narrative + RealityβBased Work
I help girls and women reframe the stories they tell themselves (and honestly stories others have told us) β shifting from βWhatβs wrong with me?β to βWhatβs actually true here?β
We look at patterns, perspectives, and the meaning youβve attached to your experiences.
This is where clarity begins.
Creative + Expressive Arts Integrationβ β
Sometimes words arenβt enough.
I use artβbased processing, visual metaphors, journaling prompts, and expressive tools to help you access whatβs deeper than language.
This is especially powerful for those who feel overwhelmed, shut down, or unsure how to express whatβs going on inside.
Conflict Navigation
From friendship fallouts to dating confusion to marriage disconnect, I help you understand whatβs happening beneath the surface β and how to respond with wisdom, boundaries, and emotional steadiness.
I also teach women how to handle conflict without backing down, how to stay graceful in hard conversations, and how to be assertive in a way that protects connection instead of breaking it.
Faith Integration (If You Want It)β β
I identify as a Christian counselor because my work is shaped by Scripture, prayer, and the belief that God is deeply involved in our healing. I also hold myself to the highest professional standards β integrating ACA ethics, ASERVIC competencies, and evidenceβbased practices with a warm, relational, human approach.
We can weave Scripture into your goals, end sessions in prayer, and explore how God is shaping your story.
And if you prefer a nonβfaith approach, I honor that fully β no pressure, no agenda, no weirdness.
Hereβs something you might not know though:
Recent research in the Journal of Psychology & Theology found that clients who receive faithβintegrated therapy report higher satisfaction, stronger therapeutic alliance, and better overall outcomes compared to clients receiving strictly secular treatment when faith is personally meaningful to them.
Translation:
When your faith matters to you, bringing it into the room actually helps you heal faster and deeper.
So if you want Jesus in the conversation, Heβs in.
If you donβt, we wonβt.
Simple.
Human.
Your choice.
A Little More
What I Believe
You are stronger than you think.
Your story matters β and itβs not finished.
You can learn from the past without living in it.
Resilience grows with truth, not pressure.
Boundaries are holy work.
Healing is not linear, but it is possible.
God is not done forming you.
The Meaning of Salt & Arrows
Salt & Arrows comes from two Scriptures that anchor my work:
Salt β βHave salt among yourselvesβ¦β (Mark 9:50)
Salt represents identity, truth, resilience, and the ability to stay grounded in who God says you are.
Arrows β βTake the arrowsβ¦ strike the groundβ¦β (2 Kings 13:18β19)
Arrows represent courage, persistence, and the call to keep going β to keep becoming.
Together, they form the heartbeat of this space:
Stay salty. Draw your arrows. Donβt stop becoming.
On a Personal Note
I pray for my clients before, during, and after sessions β truly.
I prayed for you even before I knew your name.
My hope is that this becomes a place where you feel seen, safe, and strengthened β not rushed, not judged, not pressured.
Just supported as you rise into who God designed you to be.
Take lifeβs hits and keep on moving forward.
βI help people stay steady in the moments that used to knock them sideways β because strength isnβt about never feeling it or not letting it hurt, itβs about knowing how to hold yourself through it and getting better because of it.β
β Sharon Tuttle
Iβd love to meet you!
Ready to take your next step?
Questions? I have answers!
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Counseling helps you process emotions, patterns, and experiences with a licensed professional.
Coaching is forwardβfocused and actionβoriented β perfect for dating, boundaries, confidence, and marriage momentum.
Both are rooted in biblical wisdom and emotional clarity.
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Yes β supporting teen girls is one of my specialties.
I help with identity, friendships, emotional regulation, confidence, and pressures theyβre too young to carry alone.
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I offer inβperson Christian counseling here in Colorado Springs, along with online sessions for women anywhere in Colorado. I also offer walkβandβtalk sessions for women who think and process best while moving, and midβsession text consultations for those days when you just need someone to help you work something through right away (this addβon has a small additional fee).
My approach is warm, relational, and rooted in Scripture β a steady place to land when life feels heavy or confusing.
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Yes β deeply and intentionally. If you want it, we weave Scripture into your goals, your growth, and even your weekly summaries so youβre anchored in truth, not just emotion. We end each session in prayer, and you have a counselor who prays for you continually β before, during, and after we meet. Honestly, I prayed for you even before I knew your name, asking God to prepare my heart to walk alongside the women He would send and to let the Spirit lead every bit of my equipping.
And if you donβt want faith woven in β thatβs okay too. Iβm here for you either way.
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Absolutely β this is one of the areas Iβm most passionate about. So many women feel confused, drained, or secondβguessing themselves in relationships, and they donβt realize theyβre carrying patterns that were never theirs to begin with. I help you slow down, see things clearly, and understand whatβs healthy, whatβs not, and why youβve been drawn to certain dynamics. Together we build confidence, discernment, and boundaries that feel strong and peaceful β not harsh or defensive. Whether youβre dating, healing from someone toxic, or learning to trust yourself again, you donβt have to navigate it alone.
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Yes. So many wives look up one day and think, βHow did we go from so connectedβ¦ to feeling miles apart?β Itβs painful, but itβs also fixable (as long as it is also safe). I help women gently trace where the drift began, remember what once made your marriage feel alive, and rebuild intimacy in a way that feels safe, exciting, and deeply passionate. Together we work on reconnecting emotionally, rebuilding trust, and bringing back the spark β so your marriage becomes lifeβgiving, tender, and exhilarating again.
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You deserve to know before you pour out your entire mental, emotional, and everything else life history. Thatβs why I offer a free video consultation β a noβpressure space where you can ask anything, get a feel for my style, and decide if Iβm the right person to walk with you. There is nothing worse than choosing a therapist, filling out pages of deeply personal information, spending time attending a session, and realizing you picked the wrong fitβ¦and now you have to break up with a person and itβs so so awkward.
Ask every question you need so you donβt waste time, money, or your precious emotional energy. I want you to choose whatβs best for you.
And if Iβm not your person β thatβs completely okay. Just tell me, and Iβll help you find someone who is. Not every guide is meant for every journey, but Iβll always point you toward the right path for you.
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I offer standing, recurring appointment times β because healing needs rhythm, not chaos. Most clients meet weekly or biβweekly, depending on what your life, nervous system, and season can actually hold.
Hereβs the truth: Therapy works best when itβs consistent. Not βwhenever I remember,β not βwhen things get bad again,β and definitely not βonce every six weeks when my schedule magically opens up.β
So when possible, I recommend starting with weekly sessions for the first six weeks. Not because I want to see you more β but because:
we build trust faster
your nervous system settles sooner
you gain momentum instead of starting over every time
the work actually sticks
After those first six weeks, weβll check in together and decide what feels supportive moving forward β whether thatβs staying weekly or shifting to biβweekly.
If weekly isnβt available right away, weβll start biβweekly and adjust as openings shift. Either way, weβll stay attuned to whatβs working, whatβs not, and what your real life can hold.
This is your healing β we build it around you, not the other way around.
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I donβt approach therapy like Iβm collecting PokΓ©mon diagnoses. Iβm not here to slap a label on you and call it a day. My work is centered on your lived experience β the patterns, stressors, symptoms, and stories that actually shape your life β not reducing you to a code in a manual.
That said, sometimes diagnostic language is helpful. Not as an identity, but as a tool. A diagnosis can offer:
insight
validation
clarity
direction for treatment
language for referrals
a framework for understanding whatβs going on
If a diagnosis becomes relevant, weβll talk about it openly, collaboratively, and without shame. No surprises. No βgotchaβ moments. No pathologizing your humanity.
And hereβs the real part: If you plan to use superbills for insurance reimbursement, insurance companies require a mental health diagnosis on that documentation. Thatβs not my rule β thatβs the insurance world being the insurance world.
If diagnostic documentation becomes part of your care, Iβll always communicate clearly about what it means, why itβs there, and how it supports your treatment β never as a label that defines you.
Youβre a whole human. Not a diagnosis.
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Session Format + Rates
Letβs make this simple, clear, and human β because nobody wants to dig through fine print to figure out how support works.
Individual Counseling Sessions β $85 (through the end of January)
Iβm a counselorβinβtraining and graduate in December, which means you get highβquality, deeply attuned support at a rate that reflects this season. Itβs the βbest of both worldsβ window β professionalβlevel care without the professionalβlevel price tag.
Counseling sessions are 50 minutes and can be:
inβperson
virtual
or a hybrid
Whatever works best for your life in this moment.
Counseling is where we slow down, explore your story, understand patterns, and build emotional safety. Itβs deep work β but paced, gentle, and collaborative.
Coaching Sessions β $125
Coaching is a different relationship entirely β and I mean that in the best way!
Iβve been coaching for 7 years, and it tends to become a deep, committed, highβaccountability relationship. Think of coaching as:
Open to anyone, anywhere (Colorado and beyond!)
more direct
more strategic
more actionβoriented
more access to me and my story
more momentum
BetweenβSession Texting β $25/week (only when you use it)
Some weeks you need extra support. Some weeks you donβt. Iβm not charging you for a service you didnβt use.
If you text, itβs $25 for that week. If you donβt, itβs $0. Simple.
Workshops + Retreats
Pricing varies depending on the event. If youβre interested in a workshop or retreat, reach out and Iβll send details.
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Yes! I reserve a limited number of scholarship and Pay As You Can spots for clients needing financial flexibility. Pay As You Can means a reduced rate based on your income or financial situation. I have a short form you can fill out to help determine a rate that feels sustainable for you!
These spots are first-come, first-served. If I donβt currently have open spots available, I am always happy to offer referrals to trusted lower-cost providers.
And if cost is a concern, please donβt hesitate to reach out! I am more than happy to talk it through with you.
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I accept electronic payments. The online system accepts most credit/debit cards, including HSA and FSA cards that function like a regular card.
Before your first session, you will receive a secure form to enter your card info. The session fee is charged the evening prior to each appointment.
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I am considered an out-of-network provider, which means I am not in-network with any insurance companies. I have chosen not to work directly with insurance for more flexibility in my practice, and also to protect your privacy. I think itβs important to provide care that isnβt dictated by insurance requirements or forced diagnoses. That feels really wrong to me.
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Appointment times are reserved specifically for you. I require at least 48 hoursβ notice if you need to cancel or reschedule. Without that notice, the full session fee will be charged. No-shows are also charged the full session fee.
That said, I know life happens! I offer one grace late cancellation or no-show per client. After that, late cancellations, reschedules made with less than 48 hoursβ notice, or no-shows will be charged in full. Special consideration may be given in cases of emergency or sudden illness, at your therapistβs discretion.
Iβm open to switching a session to telehealth on a limited, caseβbyβcase basis β especially for things like sickness, weather, or anything that would otherwise force you to cancel and get hit with a late fee.
This isnβt an everyβweek thing or a standing option. Itβs a βlife happens, letβs keep your spot and your momentumβ kind of accommodation.
All I ask is that you communicate with me ahead of time if you need to switch a session to telehealth. If you let me know, we can usually make it work and avoid unnecessary cancellations or fees.
And because your time matters too, if I need to cancel your session with less than 48 hoursβ notice outside of a true emergency, weβll waive one future late cancellation or no-show fee for youβunless Iβm able to reschedule within the same week.
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Let me say this upfront: My goal is not to keep you in therapy forever. Iβm not building a fan club. Iβm not trying to become your lifelong emotional subscription service. The whole point is to help you get what you need, build real momentum, and eventuallyβ¦ not need me anymore.
Thereβs no universal timeline because humans arenβt universal. Some people get what they came for in a few months. Some stay longer because they want ongoing support, accountability, or a space to process life as it evolves.
But hereβs how I approach it:
We start working toward your goals immediately.
We build clarity, skills, and emotional capacity as quickly as your nervous system allows.
We check in regularly about whatβs working and whatβs not.
And when you start feeling steady, grounded, and capable⦠we talk about wrapping up.
Not because Iβm pushing you out β but because therapy is supposed to launch you, not trap you.
If at any point it feels like youβre ready to pause, shift, or transition out, we make that decision together. No guilt. No weirdness. No βbut what will I do without you?β energy.
And if life shifts later and you want to come back? Great. Youβre always welcome to return β whether you need support or just want to share an update.
Whether your time here is shortβterm or longerβterm, we shape the process around what actually supports your growthβ¦ not what keeps you in the chair.